What is how to tell if a guy likes you over text?

Here's how to gauge a guy's interest in you via text, in markdown format:

• Frequency and Length of Texts:

  • If he's initiating conversations often and responding quickly, it's a good sign. Consistent texting habits suggest he enjoys talking to you.
  • Does he send more than just one-word answers? Longer, thoughtful texts that elaborate on his thoughts and feelings, or ask engaging questions, are a strong indicator. See if he is Investing effort in the conversation.

• Initiation:

  • Pay attention to who usually starts the conversations. If he frequently texts you first, it means he's thinking about you and wants to connect. Look at the patterns in Initiation of Conversations.

• Flirty and Playful Banter:

  • Does he tease you playfully, use emojis with winks or hearts, or send suggestive comments? These are classic signs of flirtation. Notice if he uses Flirty Language.
  • Look for playful teasing and inside jokes. This indicates that he's trying to build a unique connection with you.

• Personal Questions and Sharing:

  • Is he asking about your day, your interests, or your opinions? Guys who are interested want to get to know you better. Check Personal Questions that he asks.
  • Does he share things about his own life, his thoughts, and his feelings? Openness is a sign of trust and interest.

• Compliments:

  • Does he compliment you on your appearance, your personality, or your achievements? Genuine compliments show that he's paying attention and appreciates you.

• Remembering Details:

  • Does he remember things you've told him in the past? This shows that he's listening and cares about what you have to say. See if he Remembers Details.

• Making Plans:

  • Is he suggesting hanging out in person or doing things together? This is a clear sign that he wants to spend more time with you. Look for any Making Plans to see you.

• Use of Emojis and GIFs:

  • The way he uses emojis and GIFs can also be telling. Look for affectionate emojis or GIFs that express humor and shared interests. How often does he use Use of Emojis and Use of GIFs?

• Consistent Communication:

  • Note if there is a drop in communication. If there is a drop in communication it may mean he's losing interest in you.

• Context Matters:

  • Consider the overall context of your relationship. Are you friends? Have you met in person? His texting behavior should align with the stage of your relationship.

  • Don't rely solely on texting to gauge his interest. Texting can be easily misinterpreted. The best way to know for sure is to spend time with him in person.